Parentsarethefirstteachersofthechildren
CirculatingontheInternetasmallstory,a7,8yearoldchild,onthesideoftheroadtopasserbythrowingpebbles,childnexttoparentsletchildrensuchnonsense.Thereisasmallyouthcannotbereadtochildren,achild,andlatertheparents,bothsidesfought......Storyaboutthat,afterhearingthisstory,Ifeelverycomplicated.
Saynormally,children7,8yearsoldatthenaughty,naughtychildisnotbad,butthechild'snaughtyhurtothers,thatisachild.Childnocorrectjudgment,parentsshouldtimelychildeducation,guidesthechildtocorrectmistakes,dotherightthing.Thenthechild'sparentsonthechild'sside,seethechildtopassers-bythrowingstones,evenasthelongitudinal.Itiswrongofparents.Parentsisthechild'sfirstteacher,iftheparentsmayspoiltheirchildren,sochildrenwilllosethecorrectsenseofrightorwrongjudgment,toidentifyunknownofwhatwasthesocialmorality,foralongtime,thechildrenwillbedoingveryextreme,rangingfromto,whilewillmovetowardcrimeedge.Infact,hedidnotalarmist,childrencan'tdistinguishrightfromwrong,doparentsdon'tknowwhat'sright?Asthestory'sparents,isindulgingtheirchildrenincrime.
ThisyoungchildplayingHalo,thechild'sparentsdidnotwork,sothechild'sbrotherandfatherarealsoinvolved.Sadly,thechildren'sparentsdidnotproperly,correctlyhandlethematter,buttheviolence.Completedisregardofthelawatdisregarding.Thechildrenwereplaying,parentsandyouthwork,tohavechildrenbeatenback.Whatkindoflogicisthis,todayyoutofighteachother,eachotheragaintomorrowwillhityouhit,whenwilltheretribution.Butthisactofrevengeisakindoffault,ifthetwosideshurtanyone,shouldbesubjecttolegalaction.Parentsactofrevenge,virtuallyaffectchildrenofthingsisajudgment,thechildwillthinkheisplaying,parentshavetorevengeforyourself.Childrenwiththisideaonceformed,thenlaterencounteredthiskindofthing,willbetothehoursofjudgmentasabenchmark,toviolencewithviolence,untilbythelegalliability.I'mafraidatthattime,themostregretisthechild'sparents.
Tosumup,Ialwaysthink,parentsarethefirstteachersofthechildren,thechildrengrewup,completelyaffectedbytheirparents.Theparentsofeverywordandaction,willaffectthechild,childrenimitating,childrenwilllearntheparentsandaction.Asparents,mustgivethechildtocreateagoodenvironmentforthegrowth,mustbestrictself-discipline,givetheirchildrenmakegoodexample.Teachchildrentocorrectlyjudgethings,guidethechildrengrowhealthily.Noweveryfamilygenerallyhaveachild,thechild'schildhoodeducationiseveryparent'sresponsibility,afterallparentsarethefirstteachersofthechildren.Forthehealthygrowthofchildren,asparentsinone,hopeallparentscansetupthecorrectwordsanddeeds,forchildrentomakethemproud.
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父母是孩子的第一任老师
网上流传着一个小故事,说一个7、8岁大的小孩子,在路边向路人扔小石子,孩子旁边的父母却任由孩子这样地胡闹.有一个小青年看不下去,对着小孩子就是一脚,后来小孩子的父母来了,双方打了起来……故事的经过大意就是这样,当听完这则故事时,我的心情很复杂.
按理说,小孩子7、8岁正值最淘气的时候,小孩子淘气不是坏事,但是小孩子的淘气伤害到别人的时候,那就是小孩子不对了.小孩子对事情没有正确地判断能力时,父母就要及时地教育孩子,引导孩子改正错误,做正确的事情.可当时孩子的父母就在孩子的身边,见小孩子对路人扔石子,竟然任之纵之.这就是父母的不对了.父母可是孩子的第一任老师,如果父母过会溺爱孩子,那么孩子就会失去正确的是非观念判断,辨别不明什么是社会的道德,时间一长,孩子做事